We all need advocates especially as we get older and medical issues become complex. There are many times we encounter complex diagnoses and evaluations. Family members can add information that helps clear the fog for the medical team.

I remember an older lady who had fallen and was complaining of neck pain. Her son insisted something was wrong with mom. At first glance, this was another case of an older adult who had fallen and tripped- not an unusual situation.  After performing a deeper investigation, we discovered that she suffered a stroke from a clot that came from her heart. She had a growth on the heart valve that created a traveling clot to the brain. We ultimately sent her for heart valve surgery and she is fine to this day.

I have to admit that the son's persistence advocating for mom helped us reach the ultimate diagnosis and formulate a successful treatment plan. These experiences keep us, as healthcare providers, humble (or at least should).

I recommend everyone have a spokesperson, especially as we get older. The advocate should be equipped with a current medication list, advanced directives/power of attorney for healthcare document, and have easy access should an emergency arise.." you never know"....